Conversation basics
What to say to a neighbour in Spanish.
Two greetings and one short question cover most doorways. Practise them in short repetitions so the words are ready before the nerves arrive.

Your task: learn two greetings and one short question, then say them aloud at your own front door for five days. Free practice, and no account is needed to read the pages.
You step into the lift, the doorman says something friendly, and your mind goes blank. Later you replay it: you knew buenos días. You had read it a dozen times. It simply was not there when a real person was waiting for an answer.
That gap is common, and the fix is a smaller target than most advice suggests. A doorway does not need a conversation course. It needs two greetings and one short question, said aloud often enough that they arrive before the nervousness does.
Below are those three lines, a short reply, and a practice schedule that fits in three to five minutes a day. The examples are illustrative practice material, not a script you have to memorise word for word.
Practise with a seven-day plan.
The free 7 Day Spanish Starter Plan gives you a pronunciation day, seven days of phrases with a dialogue, a listening task and recall prompts, three goal tracks, an answer key and a tracker, 10 to 15 minutes a day. Use it on the web or download the 18-page PDF.
The complete plan is free and open on the web. Enter your email for the printable copy.
Learn three lines for the doorway.
Most short exchanges at a building entrance use the same small set. Start with the first three and add nothing else until they feel easy to say.
| Spanish | English | When to use it |
|---|---|---|
| Buenos días. | Good morning. | The first greeting of your day, roughly until midday. |
| Buenas tardes. | Good afternoon. / Good evening. | From around midday onwards. In Mexico City you will often hear it from midday until the evening. |
| ¿Cómo está? | How are you? (polite) | The one short question. Add it straight after the greeting. |
Say each line aloud, not in your head. The aim is not to read it correctly on a page; it is to have it ready in your mouth when a person is standing in front of you. If you want the fuller greeting set, the greetings and first conversation guide adds introductions and names.

Add a reply and a goodbye.
A greeting on its own can leave an awkward pause. One short reply keeps the exchange moving for another few seconds, which is all a lift ride usually needs.
| Spanish | English | When to use it |
|---|---|---|
| Bien, gracias, ¿y usted? | Fine, thank you, and you? | The standard reply to ¿Cómo está? |
| Muy bien, gracias. | Very well, thank you. | A shorter reply when you are in a hurry. |
| Que tenga buen día. | Have a good day. | Leaving the doorway, lift or entrance. |
| Hasta luego. | See you later. | A normal goodbye. It does not promise a particular time. |
| Con permiso. | Excuse me. | Stepping past someone in a narrow space. |
Both que tenga buen día and con permiso work without a reply, which makes them easy wins when you are still finding your voice. The small talk article takes the same idea further for a first day at work.
Try a doorway dialogue.
Read this exchange aloud and take both parts. Then cover the Spanish column and rebuild it from the English.
| Speaker | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Portero | Buenos días. | Good morning. |
| You | Buenos días. ¿Cómo está? | Good morning. How are you? |
| Portero | Bien, gracias, ¿y usted? | Fine, thank you, and you? |
| You | Muy bien, gracias. | Very well, thank you. |
| Portero | Que tenga buen día. | Have a good day. |
| You | Gracias, hasta luego. | Thank you, see you later. |
An original practice dialogue written for this page, not a recorded conversation. The doorman, the timings and the replies are illustrative.
If the answer comes back too fast, you have a fallback: Perdón, ¿puede repetir, por favor? The free Conversation Rescue Card keeps that line and a handful of others on two printable pages.
Choose usted or tú.
Spanish has two ways of saying you. ¿Cómo está? is the polite form, used with usted. ¿Cómo estás? is the familiar form, used with tú. The verb changes with the pronoun, so the two questions sound slightly different.
| Spanish | English | Address |
|---|---|---|
| ¿Cómo está? | How are you? | Polite (usted) |
| ¿Cómo estás? | How are you? | Familiar (tú) |
| ¿Y usted? | And you? | Polite (usted) |
| ¿Y tú? | And you? | Familiar (tú) |
With a doorman, a security guard or a neighbour you have not met, the polite form is the safer default. In Mexico City many people keep using usted with building staff for years, so it will not sound distant or cold. If a neighbour greets you with ¿Cómo estás?, mirror it back and ask ¿y tú? Mirroring is the simplest rule: use the form the other person used with you.
Day 1 of our free plan uses the familiar ¿Cómo te llamas? for introductions with people you meet socially. For a doorway and for building staff, the polite ¿Cómo está? on this page is the safer choice.

Overlearn until the line arrives first.
Knowing a phrase and being able to produce it under mild stress are different skills. Reading builds the first one. Saying the line aloud from memory builds the second.
Four steps that fit in a few minutes.
Say each line aloud five times.
Read it, then say it without looking. Speed does not matter; finishing the phrase does.
Cover the Spanish and recall from English.
Recall is harder than recognition, and that difficulty is the point.
Attach it to a door.
Say the lines every time you walk through your own front door, so the place becomes the cue.
Come back after a day, then three days, then a week.
Short reviews keep a line active far better than one long session you never repeat.
The pattern is not new. The IES What Works Clearinghouse practice guide Organizing Instruction and Study to Improve Student Learning recommends spacing reviews over time and using quizzing that requires active retrieval rather than rereading. Those recommendations are general study advice for content-heavy subjects, not a promise about how fast any adult learns a language; individual progress varies. The everyday version is simply: say the line, then come back to it on later days. The spaced practice guide shows how to build that into a week.
Practise for three minutes a day.
The schedule below is deliberately small. Five short sessions spread across ten days beat one long evening of copying phrases into a notebook.
| Day | Time | What to do |
|---|---|---|
| Day 1 | 3 minutes | Say the three lines aloud five times each, then cover the Spanish and recall them. |
| Day 2 | 3 minutes | Recall all three from the English. Add Bien, gracias, ¿y usted? |
| Day 4 | 4 minutes | Read the doorway dialogue aloud, taking both parts. |
| Day 7 | 4 minutes | Cover the Spanish column and rebuild the dialogue from the English. |
| Day 10 | 5 minutes | Say the lines at your front door, then in the lift. Change the order of the greetings. |
An illustrative routine, not a fixed programme. Move the days to suit your week.
This is conversation practice without a partner: you speak both parts aloud. It is not the same as talking to a real person, but it builds the lines you will reach for when you do. If a day is missed, carry on from where you stopped rather than starting the week again.
When you have ten minutes rather than three, the 10-minute practice routine spreads reading, recall and a role play across the week.
Your next small step: say Buenos días. ¿Cómo está? aloud five times now, then once at your front door tomorrow.
Is this just another app that will upsell me?
Fair question, and the honest answer is that this is not an app. There are no points, no streaks and nothing counting your days. That is deliberate: a streak is easy to keep and easy to mistake for speaking practice.
What is here is a set of free pages and printable files. The pages are open, and you can read everything without an account. The 7 Day Spanish Starter Plan is complete on its web page. If you want the PDF, the download asks for a first name and email; the file opens after that, and the same address then receives four short emails over ten days: three practice tips, then one note about paid materials. Every email has an unsubscribe link. The paid options are planned and not open for booking, so nothing is being sold to you today.
Two limits are worth knowing before you start. There is no microphone and no automatic pronunciation scoring, so you check yourself against the written phrase and the checklist. And nobody can say the lines for you. The practice only does anything while you are the one speaking them aloud.
Common questions.
What do I say to my neighbour in Spanish?
Use Buenos días or Buenas tardes, then ask ¿Cómo está? A short reply is Bien, gracias, ¿y usted?
What counts as small talk in Spanish at a doorway?
One question is enough: ¿Qué tal? with a neighbour you know, or ¿Cómo va todo? Weather works too: Hace calor hoy, ¿verdad?
Should I use tú or usted with a neighbour?
The polite form is the safer default with building staff and new neighbours. If someone greets you with ¿Cómo estás?, mirror it back and ask ¿y tú?
How much daily Spanish practice does this take?
Three to five minutes a day on five days is a workable start for three lines. A doorway does not need a long study session.
Do I need an account or a microphone?
No account is needed to read the pages. The PDF download asks for a first name and email, and nothing records your voice.
Will the free plan try to sell me a course?
The plan is complete on its web page. Downloading the PDF adds four short emails over ten days: three practice tips, then one note about paid materials, with an unsubscribe link in each. Paid options are planned and not open for booking.
Practice, not a promise. These tasks help you rehearse everyday Spanish at your own pace. Individual progress varies; nothing here promises a level, a qualification or a fixed learning speed. How we write and check our Spanish
Sources and editorial notes
- Smart Learning Path, 7 Day Spanish Starter Plan, Day 1 and Conversation Rescue Card (our own free materials).
- Institute of Education Sciences, What Works Clearinghouse, Organizing Instruction and Study to Improve Student Learning (practice guide; recommendations on spacing reviews over time and on quizzing with active retrieval), retrieved October 18, 2026.
The dialogue is an original practice example, not a recording of a real exchange. Spanish checked by our editors. See our Editorial Policy. Spotted a mistake? Suggest a correction.
Related reading.
Back to the blogSpanish Greetings for Your First Conversation
Key phrases and when to use them.
Spanish Small Talk on Your First Day at Work
Greet, answer ¿Cómo estás? and ask one question back.
Remember Spanish Phrases with Spaced Practice
Revisit phrases on later days to keep them.
Try one useful task.
Open the free seven-day plan and practise about ten minutes a day, at your own pace.
No account or payment needed.
